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Let's Think Different

Proposing a new approach to diversity and inclusion

Ilene Skeen
Jul 8, 2023
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Significantly, DEI is those who are ā€œWOKE.ā€ If we rearrange the letters and add one, we get an entirely different effect. In the words of Steve Jobs, we ought to ā€œthink different.ā€

I propose to go for a RIDE, that is, R-I-D-E:

We start with RESPECT. Respect is the precondition of this RIDE. All humans should start respecting one another, assuming they will receive respect in return. Respect means that we have different backgrounds, histories, and values. We can share our values and learn from each other when we value each other. Respect means that your preferences are yours and are not my obligation. My preferences are mine and not your obligation. Our better natures empower us to agree without obligation or part ways without incident. This is the roadmap to a voluntary society.

INCLUSION is the first milestone on the RIDE. Inclusion means we include whoever wants to be included up to the limit of the venue, conversation, etc. For example, I respect your right to agree, disagree or ignore this post. I don’t expect or tolerate insincere sentiments of any kind.

DIVERSITY is the second milestone on the RIDE. Diversity means that we will have disagreements. It’s not that we may have disagreements. We will disagree sooner or later. Diversity means that we will have disagreements based on the facts of the reality of our backgrounds and values. There is no doubt that we will have disagreements. One of the greatest joys of being human is an earnest discussion of important topics and discovering that we can reach a meeting of the minds -- not by clubbing, threatening, or shaming one’s colleagues, but by the revelation of common ground through precise thinking on all our parts where we can stand proudly together.

EQUITY is the goal, the destination, and the result of the RIDE. Equity means that we will find common ground and build our understanding together. We will shake hands warmly and stay or part as adults. If two people cannot reach an agreement without calling names, threatening, shaming, or actual violence, it is the reality of human nature that we each have free will. The exercise of responsible judgment does not guarantee agreement. In the same way, the launch of a rocket does not guarantee that the rocket will get to the moon or the submersible will find the Titanic and return safely.

Reality does not care. What makes us human is that WE care. Many of us care more about getting things right than being the one who points the way. We rightly hate all those who keep others from reaching a level that can inspire us all.

Everything else is noise. Would you take this RIDE as an improvement on DEI?

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Taria
Jul 15Liked by Ilene Skeen

I’m voting RIDE! Thanks for the re-frame, Ilene šŸ™šŸ¾

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Jul 8Liked by Ilene Skeen

Good piece, Ilene, I like RIDE.

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